What Is Coping?

Coping refers to the thoughts and behaviors you use to manage the demands of chronic pain. While you can't always control your pain, you can develop skills to handle it better. Research shows that effective coping can significantly improve quality of life, even when pain persists.1

Active vs. Passive Coping2

Active Coping (More Helpful)

  • Taking steps to manage pain
  • Staying engaged in activities
  • Using relaxation techniques
  • Problem-solving
  • Maintaining social connections

Passive Coping (Less Helpful)

  • Withdrawing from activities
  • Relying only on medications
  • Depending on others to help
  • Wishful thinking alone
  • Avoiding all discomfort

Cognitive Strategies3

Reframing

  • Challenge unhelpful thoughts
  • Find more balanced perspectives
  • "This is hard" vs "I can't handle this"

Acceptance

  • Acknowledge pain without fighting it
  • Focus on what you can control
  • Doesn't mean giving up

Attention Management

  • Distraction techniques
  • Focus on engaging activities
  • Mindful awareness

Behavioral Strategies

Pacing

  • Balance activity and rest
  • Avoid boom-bust cycles
  • Consistent activity levels

Staying Active

  • Gentle exercise
  • Meaningful activities
  • Social engagement

Relaxation

  • Deep breathing
  • Progressive muscle relaxation
  • Guided imagery

Emotional Strategies

  • Express feelings appropriately
  • Seek support from others
  • Self-compassion
  • Manage depression and anxiety
  • Find meaning and purpose

Building Your Toolkit

  • Try different strategies
  • Note what works for you
  • Have multiple tools available
  • Different situations need different approaches
  • Practice regularly

When Coping Alone Isn't Enough

  • Seek professional help
  • Pain psychology/counseling
  • Pain management programs
  • Support groups
  • No shame in needing help

References

  1. Jensen MP, Turner JA, Romano JM, Karoly P. Coping with chronic pain: a critical review of the literature. Pain. 1991;47(3):249-283.
  2. Snow-Turek AL, Norris MP, Tan G. Active and passive coping strategies in chronic pain patients. Pain. 1996;64(3):455-462.
  3. Keefe FJ, Rumble ME, Scipio CD, et al. Psychological aspects of persistent pain: current state of the science. J Pain. 2004;5(4):195-211.